Moments to lean on!

I know there are days where you just want to completely breakdown. Days where you wonder if you can even find the strength to keep fighting because you are exhausted. BUT, you keep it together and smile and carry on like everything inside of you is not breaking. You help others without thinking to ask help for yourself. You don’t want to seem weak. You don’t want to seem like a burden. You know that you’re hurt. You don’t know from what you are going through exactly. May be its work, university or million other things. People demand a lot from you but you never let anyone down. Sometimes you dissapoint them but you never mean to.

Your tired eyes wonder if there’s more than what you are getting rn. Maybe where ever you are right now is enough or may be you have excelled as much as you can.

You should be happy for that. You should be keep going. Keep trying. Keep working. Don’t lose faith. Because it’s in those moments where you want to get up and walk away and quit, comes something rewarding. There is something on the other side of this confusion and heartbreak, rough life, bad routine and sadness. You just have to get there first. Just know you aren’t alone and know that Allah is with you.

Simple Reminder

Stop waiting for weekends, for spring, for someone to fall in love with you, for life. Happiness is achieved when you stop waiting for it and make the most of the moment you are in now. Everything will be good soon, just hang in there and don’t worry too much about it.

Its okay to make mistakes and its okay to not to be good at everything.

Its okay to fail even when you try hard for thousands of time. Because no matter the amount of times you have felt lost in a sea of thousand things to do, a range of roles and responsibilities and the many ways the others see you all along, you have still been you. You have been blooming everyday and no amount of feeling unnoticed can pull you away from this truth.

Worrying will not stop bad stuff from happening, it just stops you from enjoying the good. Overthinking is the biggest cause of our unhappiness, keep yourself occupied and please keep your minds off things that don’t help you. Overthinking also create problems that aren’t there, your mind needs rest to take decisions. Overthinking leads nowhere. Give yourself a break and keep faith in Allah Almighty. Believe me, someday, everything will make perfect sense.

So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself taht everything happens, happens for a reason.

The Shadow Effect

The most keen faultfinders and those known for pointing out flaws or shortcomings of others, are mostly the ones who are blind to their own weaknesses, insecurities and mistakes. They live in denial and portray themselves just like the victim in all perspectives. They are offended by the truth. Its best to realise and accept oneself.

I wonder which is harder, accepting your fate and living with it or living in denial the rest of your life?

You may not have the capacity to control every situation and its outcome but you can control your attitude to deal with it. When we deny ourselves a safe outlet to express our dark side or refuse to even acknowledge its reality it builds up and turn into a powerful source fit for destroying our life and also the lives of people around us. Everything starts and finishes in your mind. What you offer power to has power over you, if you allow it. You gotta train your brain to be more stronger than your feelings or else you’ll lose yourself every time.

God is saying to you today,

“I realise that you’re struggling hard. I realize your finances are tight right now. I realize you’re making a hard attempt to deal with everything that life is throwing at you. I know you feel like to give up sometimes, but I need you to come towards Me. I will show you the way, because I’m the way. I’ve a blessing with your name on it. Try not to surrender before the blessing comes. ”

When you’ll focus on problems, you’ll have more problems. When you focus around outcomes/possibilities, you’ll have more opportunities. Dont let your hope die just because you’re tired. So far, you’ve survived 100% of your most awful days, this will pass as well.

Today, I need you to think about all that you are instead of all that you are certainly not.

-maidahchaudhry

NEVER FORGET

How far you’ve come, everything you’ve gotten through. All the times you’ve pushed on even when you felt you couldn’t. All the times you’ve wanted to give up but you got through another day. When a life gives you hundred reasons to breakdown and cry, show life that you’ve a million reasons to smile and laugh. Stay strong, be patient. You’re strong enough to handle your challenges. You cant control everything. Sometimes you just need to relax and have faith that things will work out. be patient with yourself. You will grow stronger everyday.

” Never Forget how much strength you’ve learned and developed”

‘You fall, you rise, you make mistakes, you live, you learn’ noticed the connection? You’re human, not perfect. You’ve been hurt, but you are alive. think of what a precious privilege it is to be alive – to breathe, to think, to enjoy, and to chase the things you love. I don’t say there’s no sadness in your journey, yes there is, there can be many moments which saddens you but there’s also lots of beauty around you. We must keep putting one foot in front of the other even when we’re hurt, because we never know what is waiting for us just around the bend. Never forget that everything happens for a reason.