A Great Relationship
Falling in love is an easy part.
The challenge for couple is to revive the fire of love from time to time, cherish the common things between, respect the differences, develop the mature trusting love, that is the sign of a lasting relationship.
Faith, hope and surety.
Matter of fact
Accept yourself.
What if?
What if this whole moment, this all hard work, has been leading you to a beautiful chapter in your life? What if all works out, even if now it doesn’t seem like it?
What if who I am becoming is who I always needed?
What if all of this hard work leads to incredible things?
What if you replaced negativity with optimism?
Are your thoughts and behaviour going to change too?
I believe so.
#maidahchaudhry
Mindset
Mindset.
Its all bout mindset.
From the moment you wake up, to the moment you go for rest at night. Everything is up to you. Your emotions, your thoughts, your views, your perceptions, your reactions, your considerations. Every moment is up to you.
Train your mindset to see the good in everything. Positivity is the choice. The happiness factor in your life is extremely dependable upon the quality of your thoughts. Waiting for the best day of your life? Your everyday can be the best if you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses, no one to lean on, to rely on or to blame. The gift is yours. Trust me, its an amazing journey and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. Be calm and let things happen the way they want, you just take care your own doings. You dont need to give a quick reaction to every happening as it would not change anything to a bit.
Im slowly learning that giving a reaction, wont change anything. It wont make people suddenly love and respect me, it wont magically change their minds. Sometimes its better to just let things be, let people assume, dont fight, dont ask for explanations, dont chase answers and dont expect people to understand.
I’m slowly learning that life is better lived when you dont center it on whats happening around you and center it on whats happening inside you instead. Work on yourself and your inner peace.
#maidahchaudhry
One morning she woke up different.
She was with trying to make sense of who was with her, against her or going down the middle coz they didnt have the guts to pick a side. She was done with whatever didnt bring her peace. She understood that opinions were extremely common, approval was for stopping and loyality wasnt a word but a lifestyle. It was this day that her life changed, not because of someone but because she understood that life is too short to even think about leaving the way to your satisfaction in someone else’s pocket.
And, for what reason is that so?
During the hardest times of your lives,
You’ll get to see the real nature of people who say they care about you. Notice who sticks around and who doesn’t. Also, be thankful to the people who give you the space to grow in the space they walk out on, and appreciate the people who loved you when you didn’t feel love-able.
Main concern: Be alright with giving the gift of your absence to the people who don’t adore and regard your essence
#maidahcahudhry
A blank space
Knowing that you are as still trying
To cut things out,
Also, even without the lucidity
You figured you would have at this point,
May you know undoubtfully
This is a long lasting journey,
You have been called to,
And, no matter the time that has passed,
It is as yet not very late for you,
And, there is quite a lot more to this life,
And, the journey you have been called to.
#maidahchaudhry
