𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘸𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘣𝘦𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘢𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘧𝘳𝘰𝘮 𝘴𝘶𝘤𝘩 𝘢 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘨𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘣𝘪𝘨, 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘶𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘤𝘳𝘢𝘤𝘬𝘴 𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘯 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘣𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘸𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘦𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘪𝘥𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘴 𝘢𝘸𝘢𝘺, 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘪𝘤𝘩 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘥𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘶𝘴, 𝘨𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘶𝘴 𝘣𝘺 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴, 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘱𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘶𝘪𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘸𝘦 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘵.
𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘰 𝘸𝘦 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘸𝘢𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘸𝘢𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘢𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘰 𝘦𝘹𝘱𝘦𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 ‘𝘢𝘩𝘢’ 𝘮𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯𝘵, 𝘸𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘦𝘥, 𝘩𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘧𝘶𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘯𝘰𝘵 𝘢𝘧𝘳𝘢𝘪𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘢𝘳𝘮𝘵𝘩 𝘯𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘷𝘦𝘴.
𝘉𝘶𝘵 𝘐 𝘥𝘰𝘯’𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘣𝘪𝘨, 𝘰𝘳 𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘦, 𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭. 𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴, 𝘦𝘹𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘢𝘤𝘤𝘦𝘱𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘵 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘭𝘸𝘢𝘺𝘴 𝘣𝘦 𝘣𝘢𝘭𝘢𝘯𝘤𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘭𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘳𝘬 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯 𝘶𝘴. 𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘦𝘹𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘴 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘲𝘶𝘪𝘦𝘵, 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘮𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴, 𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵𝘴’ 𝘴𝘪𝘣𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘴’ 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘴’ 𝘷𝘰𝘪𝘤𝘦, 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘭𝘺 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶- 𝘵𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘤𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘰𝘵𝘪𝘤 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦, 𝘸𝘢𝘵𝘤𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘥 𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘵𝘢𝘭𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘴𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨, 𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘦𝘷𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦, 𝘢 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘢 𝘧𝘳𝘦𝘦 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘭, 𝘣𝘦𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘳𝘶𝘦𝘴𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧. 𝘐 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘬 𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘭 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘢𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶, 𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴, 𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘯𝘦𝘥 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘣𝘭𝘰𝘰𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘨. 𝘒𝘰𝘪 𝘢𝘢 𝘬 𝘢𝘱𝘬𝘰 𝘯𝘩𝘪 𝘬𝘢𝘩𝘢𝘺 𝘨𝘢 𝘬𝘦𝘩 𝘺𝘦𝘩𝘭𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘶𝘮𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪 𝘬𝘩𝘶𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘺𝘢𝘯, 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘸𝘦 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘪𝘵 𝘪𝘯 𝘧𝘢𝘤𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘪𝘵.
𝘗𝘚 𝘋𝘰𝘰𝘴𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯 𝘬𝘪 𝘬𝘩𝘶𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘺𝘰𝘯 𝘱𝘦 𝘬𝘩𝘶𝘴𝘩 𝘩𝘰𝘦𝘺𝘯 𝘰𝘳 𝘢𝘱𝘯𝘪 𝘬𝘩𝘶𝘴𝘩𝘪 𝘬𝘢 𝘬𝘩𝘶𝘥 𝘬𝘩𝘺𝘢𝘭 𝘬𝘢𝘳𝘦𝘺𝘯.
𝙃𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙚𝙨𝙨 𝙞𝙨 𝙖 𝙨𝙮𝙣𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙘 𝙚𝙢𝙤𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙚𝙞𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙙𝙪𝙘𝙚 𝙤𝙧 𝙙𝙤𝙣’𝙩.𝘠𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘣𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘥𝘦𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘦 𝘩𝘰𝘸 𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺. 𝘗𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘢𝘳𝘦 𝘴𝘶𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺 𝘩𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘭𝘰𝘱𝘦𝘥 𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘮 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘶𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘰𝘯 𝘢 𝘥𝘢𝘪𝘭𝘺 𝘣𝘢𝘴𝘪𝘴.
𝙏𝙧𝙮 𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙨𝙤𝙢𝙚 𝙝𝙖𝙗𝙞𝙩𝙨, 𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙨𝙚𝙚 𝙬𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙮 𝙙𝙤 𝙛𝙤𝙧 𝙮𝙤𝙪:
- 𝘚𝘭𝘰𝘸 𝘥𝘰𝘸𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘳𝘦𝘤𝘪𝘢𝘵𝘦 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦’𝘴 𝘭𝘪𝘵𝘵𝘭𝘦 𝘱𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘶𝘳𝘦𝘴.
- 𝘚𝘱𝘦𝘯𝘥 𝘮𝘰𝘯𝘦𝘺 𝘰𝘯 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦.
- 𝘚𝘶𝘳𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘱𝘦𝘰𝘱𝘭𝘦.
- 𝘚𝘵𝘢𝘺 𝘱𝘰𝘴𝘪𝘵𝘪𝘷𝘦.
- 𝘎𝘦𝘵 𝘦𝘯𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩 𝘴𝘭𝘦𝘦𝘱.
- 𝘏𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘥𝘦𝘦𝘱 𝘤𝘰𝘯𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴.
- 𝘏𝘦𝘭𝘱 𝘰𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘴.
- 𝘔𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘢𝘯 𝘦𝘧𝘧𝘰𝘳𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘺.
- 𝘏𝘢𝘷𝘦 𝘢 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸𝘵𝘩 𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘴𝘦𝘵.
𝘏𝘢𝘱𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘦𝘴𝘴 𝘪𝘴 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘶𝘭𝘵 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘯𝘵𝘢𝘪𝘯, 𝙗𝙪𝙩 𝙞𝙩 𝙞𝙨 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙝𝙬𝙝𝙞𝙡𝙚 𝙩𝙤 𝙚𝙣𝙜𝙖𝙜𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙥𝙧𝙤𝙥𝙚𝙧 𝙝𝙖𝙗𝙞𝙩𝙨. 𝘌𝘷𝘦𝘯 𝘪𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘰𝘯𝘭𝘺 𝘢𝘥𝘰𝘱𝘵 𝘢 𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘥𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘰𝘧 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘩𝘢𝘣𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘰𝘯 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘭𝘪𝘴𝘵, 𝘪𝘵 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘮𝘢𝘬𝘦 𝘢 𝘴𝘪𝘨𝘯𝘪𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘪𝘯 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘮𝘰𝘰𝘥.
𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙤𝙩𝙝𝙚𝙧 𝙗𝙚𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙧𝙨 𝙙𝙤 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙝𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙢𝙖𝙠𝙚 𝙮𝙤𝙪 𝙝𝙖𝙥𝙥𝙮?
What if this whole moment, this all hard work, has been leading you to a beautiful chapter in your life? What if all works out, even if now it doesn’t seem like it?
What if who I am becoming is who I always needed?
What if all of this hard work leads to incredible things?
What if you replaced negativity with optimism?
Are your thoughts and behaviour going to change too?
I believe so.
Its all bout mindset.
From the moment you wake up, to the moment you go for rest at night. Everything is up to you. Your emotions, your thoughts, your views, your perceptions, your reactions, your considerations. Every moment is up to you.
Train your mindset to see the good in everything. Positivity is the choice. The happiness factor in your life is extremely dependable upon the quality of your thoughts. Waiting for the best day of your life? Your everyday can be the best if you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses, no one to lean on, to rely on or to blame. The gift is yours. Trust me, its an amazing journey and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. Be calm and let things happen the way they want, you just take care your own doings. You dont need to give a quick reaction to every happening as it would not change anything to a bit.
Im slowly learning that giving a reaction, wont change anything. It wont make people suddenly love and respect me, it wont magically change their minds. Sometimes its better to just let things be, let people assume, dont fight, dont ask for explanations, dont chase answers and dont expect people to understand.
I’m slowly learning that life is better lived when you dont center it on whats happening around you and center it on whats happening inside you instead. Work on yourself and your inner peace.
She was with trying to make sense of who was with her, against her or going down the middle coz they didnt have the guts to pick a side. She was done with whatever didnt bring her peace. She understood that opinions were extremely common, approval was for stopping and loyality wasnt a word but a lifestyle. It was this day that her life changed, not because of someone but because she understood that life is too short to even think about leaving the way to your satisfaction in someone else’s pocket.
And, for what reason is that so?
During the hardest times of your lives,
You’ll get to see the real nature of people who say they care about you. Notice who sticks around and who doesn’t. Also, be thankful to the people who give you the space to grow in the space they walk out on, and appreciate the people who loved you when you didn’t feel love-able.
Main concern: Be alright with giving the gift of your absence to the people who don’t adore and regard your essence