Mindset

Mindset.

Its all bout mindset.

From the moment you wake up, to the moment you go for rest at night. Everything is up to you. Your emotions, your thoughts, your views, your perceptions, your reactions, your considerations. Every moment is up to you.

Train your mindset to see the good in everything. Positivity is the choice. The happiness factor in your life is extremely dependable upon the quality of your thoughts. Waiting for the best day of your life? Your everyday can be the best if you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses, no one to lean on, to rely on or to blame. The gift is yours. Trust me, its an amazing journey and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. Be calm and let things happen the way they want, you just take care your own doings. You dont need to give a quick reaction to every happening as it would not change anything to a bit.

Im slowly learning that giving a reaction, wont change anything. It wont make people suddenly love and respect me, it wont magically change their minds. Sometimes its better to just let things be, let people assume, dont fight, dont ask for explanations, dont chase answers and dont expect people to understand.

I’m slowly learning that life is better lived when you dont center it on whats happening around you and center it on whats happening inside you instead. Work on yourself and your inner peace.

#maidahchaudhry

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One morning she woke up different.

She was with trying to make sense of who was with her, against her or going down the middle coz they didnt have the guts to pick a side. She was done with whatever didnt bring her peace. She understood that opinions were extremely common, approval was for stopping and loyality wasnt a word but a lifestyle. It was this day that her life changed, not because of someone but because she understood that life is too short to even think about leaving the way to your satisfaction in someone else’s pocket.

And, for what reason is that so?

During the hardest times of your lives,

You’ll get to see the real nature of people who say they care about you. Notice who sticks around and who doesn’t. Also, be thankful to the people who give you the space to grow in the space they walk out on, and appreciate the people who loved you when you didn’t feel love-able.

Main concern: Be alright with giving the gift of your absence to the people who don’t adore and regard your essence

#maidahcahudhry

A blank space

Knowing that you are as still trying

To cut things out,

Also, even without the lucidity

You figured you would have at this point,

May you know undoubtfully

This is a long lasting journey,

You have been called to,

And, no matter the time that has passed,

It is as yet not very late for you,

And, there is quite a lot more to this life,

And, the journey you have been called to.

#maidahchaudhry

R and D maybe?

I should have said this in my first story… I didn’t do well in writing class. 1st through 12th grade. I didn’t fail, but I definitely didn’t succeed. Remember this when you see countless errors in my writing.

So today i brought you guys a healthy lifestyle advise.

Ready for a trial?

Okay so Set your alarm for 6am. Dont groan when it goes off and pull the covers over your head, clinomania has a bad end so get up and start your day. . Put on a sweatshirt and PJ’s. Go downstairs and pour yourself a nice big class of water. Cut some fruit and mix it in with yougurt. Have some granola. Stand outside and feel the air. Now stretch for 10 mins. Skip for 5 mins. Jog for 10 mins. Run for 10 mins. Walk back. Lay out a towel or the yoga mat and lay down on it. Do 40 crunches. Yes, they hurt, but they are 100%worth it. When you’re done, take some rest and get in the shower. Use a nice smelling shampoo and matching conditioner. Wash your body. Exfoliate your face. Get out of the shower and let your hair air dry.

If you’re going to the school, university, office, remember you have the chance to make anyone’s day or ruin it. Act accordingly. Weed out the bad language. Its only creating tension in your mind and body. Kind words are infinitely more appreciated. Take some time each day to improve your mind. Keep your practice going on offering prayer. Keep reading any great book. Practice an instrument or a skill. The progress is its own reward. Pictures will help you remember how beautiful life is bit spend less time on your phone and more time seeing the world face to face. Before going to the bed Look in the mirror and tell yourself that you’ve done well, tomorrow is there with room to become even better. Now Do you like whatyou see? If you do, good for you. Do this everyday and you will continue to love yoursel. If you dont like what you see, do this everyday and pretty soon you will. Being lazy might feel good at the time. But, being active feels better in the long run.

How badly do you want it?

#maidahchaudhry

Moments to lean on!

I know there are days where you just want to completely breakdown. Days where you wonder if you can even find the strength to keep fighting because you are exhausted. BUT, you keep it together and smile and carry on like everything inside of you is not breaking. You help others without thinking to ask help for yourself. You don’t want to seem weak. You don’t want to seem like a burden. You know that you’re hurt. You don’t know from what you are going through exactly. May be its work, university or million other things. People demand a lot from you but you never let anyone down. Sometimes you dissapoint them but you never mean to.

Your tired eyes wonder if there’s more than what you are getting rn. Maybe where ever you are right now is enough or may be you have excelled as much as you can.

You should be happy for that. You should be keep going. Keep trying. Keep working. Don’t lose faith. Because it’s in those moments where you want to get up and walk away and quit, comes something rewarding. There is something on the other side of this confusion and heartbreak, rough life, bad routine and sadness. You just have to get there first. Just know you aren’t alone and know that Allah is with you.

Simple Reminder

Stop waiting for weekends, for spring, for someone to fall in love with you, for life. Happiness is achieved when you stop waiting for it and make the most of the moment you are in now. Everything will be good soon, just hang in there and don’t worry too much about it.

Its okay to make mistakes and its okay to not to be good at everything.

Its okay to fail even when you try hard for thousands of time. Because no matter the amount of times you have felt lost in a sea of thousand things to do, a range of roles and responsibilities and the many ways the others see you all along, you have still been you. You have been blooming everyday and no amount of feeling unnoticed can pull you away from this truth.

Worrying will not stop bad stuff from happening, it just stops you from enjoying the good. Overthinking is the biggest cause of our unhappiness, keep yourself occupied and please keep your minds off things that don’t help you. Overthinking also create problems that aren’t there, your mind needs rest to take decisions. Overthinking leads nowhere. Give yourself a break and keep faith in Allah Almighty. Believe me, someday, everything will make perfect sense.

So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears and keep reminding yourself taht everything happens, happens for a reason.

The Shadow Effect

The most keen faultfinders and those known for pointing out flaws or shortcomings of others, are mostly the ones who are blind to their own weaknesses, insecurities and mistakes. They live in denial and portray themselves just like the victim in all perspectives. They are offended by the truth. Its best to realise and accept oneself.

I wonder which is harder, accepting your fate and living with it or living in denial the rest of your life?

You may not have the capacity to control every situation and its outcome but you can control your attitude to deal with it. When we deny ourselves a safe outlet to express our dark side or refuse to even acknowledge its reality it builds up and turn into a powerful source fit for destroying our life and also the lives of people around us. Everything starts and finishes in your mind. What you offer power to has power over you, if you allow it. You gotta train your brain to be more stronger than your feelings or else you’ll lose yourself every time.

God is saying to you today,

“I realise that you’re struggling hard. I realize your finances are tight right now. I realize you’re making a hard attempt to deal with everything that life is throwing at you. I know you feel like to give up sometimes, but I need you to come towards Me. I will show you the way, because I’m the way. I’ve a blessing with your name on it. Try not to surrender before the blessing comes. ”

When you’ll focus on problems, you’ll have more problems. When you focus around outcomes/possibilities, you’ll have more opportunities. Dont let your hope die just because you’re tired. So far, you’ve survived 100% of your most awful days, this will pass as well.

Today, I need you to think about all that you are instead of all that you are certainly not.

-maidahchaudhry