Being an observer, its my interest to break down and study other’s behavior.
From the time I have taken my observation genuine about watching the human instinct I have seen the majority of people are not thankful for what they have or what they are. Their exceptionally require is to compare and afterward change even then still they look more things to compare since they are still forever unsatisfied.
The inquiry emerges in my brain is the reason that people even compare and tries to change yet at the same time never gets fulfilled on the grounds that regardless of the amount they change despite everything they need to compare. There can be few reasons A. Possibly they need to change with the end goal for people to like them. B. They are not happy or satisfied for what they have. C. They are not appreciative on things introduce in their lives. D. Someone in their life is debasing them. E. There is a considerable measure of pessimism around them.
Presumably somewhere, we compare ourselves with others so as to change or resemble them. This thing begins from the time when out of the blue you compare your any element or anything from your existence with that specific thing or person. There are few motivations to compare, either you venerate them or you think you are nothing by your self. In the event that the fact of the matter is adoration then its fine to some extent however in the event that the person comapring gets too much and then it truly irritate as long as he can remember or he may can totally lose his own personality so as to resemble someone else. Presently the other alternative, on the off chance that you think you are nothing yourself then buddy believe me you are in genuine issue since you are insufficient appreciative for what you have and being not appreciative is extremely a major issue as it makes your life so mind boggling that you even dont like the things used to be close or dear to you since you are never thankful.
Contrasting and attempting to be like someone else can devastate your own qaulities and personality.
And afterward the time comes when you wont have the capacity to perceive yourself.
To overcome this you just need to express gratitude toward God for what He gave you or what you are today. Presumably, Allah adore the individuals who appreciate and are thankful.